Friday, June 29, 2007

Upgrade Interview

Went for upgrade interview @ 3.30pm just now. The questions are mostly asked by Ger Yan (another IS director).

Her questions are really not easy to handle.. eg, "When you move up to SO level, there will be many SO competing during appraisel, how and what are you going to do to make sure you shine?" "Can you handle stress?? What kind of stress you have handle so far? Can you multi-task?" "What makes you think you are suitable to move up to SO grade?"

If I can make it, it is really a miracle!

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Deli is ANGRY..

Deli had a heated argument with MIL last night.

Earlier, San Yi called and asked us what time we will be going over to Da Kim house this coming Saturday. MIL told her she will not be going and staying at home to look after Bryant. Only Deli and I will be going. When Deli heard this, he started to ask her how come Bryant cannot go. But MIL did not answer him and he followed her to her room. "Why Bryant cannot go??"

MIL replied him "That time when I went to wen shen, shuping said she will believe then I went to ask. Shen said Jia Kai cannot go out at night!"

Deli looked at her and replied "I want to bring him go Da Kim house on Saturday evening!"

MIL rushed into my room and said "You said you believe then I go and ask!!" I nodded my head.

She went out to living room "You really not going to listen to me?!"

Deli replied "I am his father! And I want to bring him go out this Saturday! Do you know he has not been going back to visit his grandparents for very long time?"

MIL shouted "Go back lo!!"

Deli replied "We will and you better stop talking about this!!" MIL went back to her room and cried.

When I woke up around 4am to prepare milk for Bryant, MIL came out of her room and said want to talk to me after I fed Bryant. She asked me to stand in front of the altar. "I have never stop you going back to your parent's place! They are your parents! They raised you up, just like me, raised Deli up! How can he talk to me like that!!??" And she started to cry. "My heart aches!!" FIL came out and asked MIL to stop ranting. She went back to her room and cried and I went back to my room but was unable to fall alsleep. I felt sad for her but felt that she deserved it too. Conflicting thoughts. She always want things to be in her way, regardless right or wrong, insensitive to others' feelings. Deli is brought up in this manner thus he became rebellious. I only hope Bryant won't become like him because MIL is taking care of him the same way she took care of Deli. *pray hard*