Who is more forgiving??

Yesterday evening, when I was on my way home taking cab, the radio discussion was "Who is more forgiving? Men or Women?"

Quite a few called in and most of them said women are more forgiving. In what way? For their family sake, they are willing to forgive their husbands if they commit adultery. But for men, they are not so forgiving as it is an impact to their ego.

I think is quite true. Women are willing to keep quiet and stay on though their husbands had strayed, especially those with children. It is not a matter that women can't support themselves, is they do not want their children to grow up in a incomplete family. Asians are more conservative. They believe a COMPLETE family is very important.

But what is the definition of COMPLETE? Everyone stays together but no communication, does that consider COMPLETE? Isn't it meaningless to stay in a loveless marriage? Alot people commented children grow up in a broken family will stray but I saw some children growing in a complete family also strayed so this is not a valid reason. I think this is more on self-disciplined, and the choices you make. You have the CHOICE to become a GOOD or a BAD person.

Therefore, we must teach the correct moral values to our children in order to let them choose the correct path. With the correct moral values, I'm sure the children will know which path is good for them.

Back to the topic, I think women should still think for themselves too. There will be a time when the children will leave to build their own family. When the time comes, they will be alone.

I think I am a forgiving person but definitely will never forget. That's ME! :)

A New Haircut

Brought Bryant to the neighbourhood hairdresser to trim his hair as it is very untidy. Her skills so-so. Mine WORSE! I trim alittle more for him when we reached home.

I'm sorry, Bryant. Mummy is not cut-out to be a hair-dresser. :(

School Time!

Bryant started NTUC childcare on last Monday, 14/07/08. I felt awful for sending him to childcare as he is still so young but I want him to be more independent and have proper conversational skills. I hardened my heart and brought him there.

First day was OK as I was with him for the half day. Perhaps I was there, that was why, he was full of mischief! He bullied 3 toddlers by pulling their hair and they cried so badly. They are from the nursery class and are 3 years old! They got angry and refused to play with him, and one even pushed him to the floor! I got a shock and started to worry if it is a bad idea to start him so young. What if he gets bullied by the older toddlers?



I got a shock on second day when Teacher Alice refused to let me into the class! She carried Bryant in and he started to cry. My heart aches. He cried for 30mins and I hid outside his classroom to peek at him and cried at the same time. I couldn't take it anymore and left. Went to market to walk one round and went back again. Teacher Alice saw me from far and called me and said Bryant has settled down and not to worry. I peeked from window and saw him playing with the toddlers and felt more at ease. Went back home to rest and went back to his school at 11am. He was eating his lunch when he saw me and started to cry again. I went in and glued to me and refused to let Teacher Alice near him.



Third Day: He cried when Teacher Alice took his bag and carried him. Within 10mins, Teacher Alice managed to soothe him and he joined the rest for breakfast. I felt so much better and relieved and went back home. Brought MIl down at 12pm to introduce the teachers as she will be picking Bryant in the future. When we reached there, we couldn't find him. He had actually fell asleep while drinking milk. Spaggetti was served as lunch that day and Bryant never eat therefore Teacher Alice made him some milk. When he saw us, he started to cry again and MIL also started to cry.



This is his second week in childcare. As usual, he cries when about to go in but will settle down after awhile. Hope he can get adjusted well and will not cry again. Bryant! Jia You!! :)

Wild Wild Wet @ Downtown East

We brought Bryant to Wild Wild Wet on 12/07/08, Saturday. He enjoyed himself very much. He was full of smiles :)
I bought him a thermal swimwear which cost me a bomb, $60!! Thank God, it really keep him warm as he has bronchitis history and I was worried he may fall sick.



H really loves the water alot and refused to let us hold his hand. He only want to explore by himself. Initially, I was still worried that he will be afraid and cry but he proved me wrong and enjoyed himself more than us. :)



He was knocked out and slept all the way home till the next day. I will definitely bring him out to play water more often. :)

Refer to gallery for more pics.

Blu Jazz

We had a small farewell drinks session @ Blu Jazz for Albert. He was supposingly to take over from James Teng to become Team Leader for our team but he decided to go back school in UK.

PSA Dinner Gathering @ Melben

James, Karl and Mark gave us a treat at Melben on last Friday (04/07/08). Everyone enjoyed themselves very much EXCEPT ME because I cannot eat seafood now as I'm preggy!! ~~>_<~~

James was promoted to PM while Karl and Mark were converted to Perm.

Guess Who?

For those who know my whole family, he is not my brother! He is BRYANT!!! Hehe!! But this pic really looks like him tho. ;)

Sentosa Pelawan Beach 05/07/08

We decided to bring Bryant to a beach to let him have a feel of sea and sand. Initially, I was afraid he would be afraid, but he loves the sea! Kept asking Deli to carry him into the sea to play. There was a SPH event in the afternoonso the beach was very crowded. Bryant was very happy and was knocked out after his bath in the early evening. :)

Happy Time...

Met up with May, Zhen, Qiang, Tin, Hao, Sebas and Carol on Wed, 02/07/08. Supposingly the dinner is meant to celebrate Marie n Justin birthday but Marie couldn't make it so it became just a normal dinner gathering, full of laughter. :)
We teased Sebas when comes to baby names. I really enjoyed myself that night. Been a long time since I laughed so heartily. Haha!!

A small gathering @ Xiaohui's House

We went to Xiaohui's house for dinner on 07/06/08. Is been a long time since I met up with Xiaohui. Last time is we played together, now is our kids playing together. :)

Helpful or Kaypo?? ;)

My daddy bought a him a tent and he always helps my dad to setup every weekend...