MIL called @ 8.30pm, reminded me not to be home late, reminded me what "shen" has said. I said "OK". She called again @ 9.30pm, "IYOH!! What time you want to come back!?!" Replied her "Now". Told Deli we should head home and he agreed. On our way back, he asked me what she said and I told him.
When we reached home, she was shouting at her top of voice at FIL. "Why I cannot call them??!! I looked after him from Mon to Fri le!!" By then, Bryant has woke up and started to cry and I quickly went back to our room. Deli closed the door and went to their room. Deli asked MIL what's the issue and MIL said FIL complained that MIL should not called and disturb us. Deli asked her why she called me. She said should not come home so late. Deli replied "He's my son and I decide what time he comes home!" MIL started to scream "Why shuping never tell you!!" Deli shouted "She did tell me!! Mon to Fri you looked after him and I don't care what you do. But weekend he's being look after by me so you don't bother us!!" She screamed again "I care about him!!!" Deli shouted "I don't care! Just don't disturb us!!" She screamed again "I know I cannot carry him during weekend, cannot call!" Deli replied "YOU better remember what you say!" and left their room. Outside became very quiet. Deli came back into our room, smiled at Bryant and went to bath.
At that point of time, I felt very sad. Our house is no longer peaceful since Bryant's arrival. I am not blaming Bryant. All of us love him very much and want the best for him but all of us have different methods. Suddenly, I really wish to become SAHM so that I can take care of him myself and reduce the conflicts. But one house cannot have two women to control the port. Unless we have our own house, else this idea won't work. :(
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